Other Shoes

We occasionally worry at my house that we could "spoil" our daughter. Our intention, of course, is to provide her with just the right amount of love, but we're well aware that some of the indulgences we feel comfortable providing would be less comfortable for some. Tonight, Annalee wanted to walk to the mailbox with Mama, Dada, and Boo-Dog. Mom put on Annalee's sandals to get ready for the journey. As we were leaving the house, Annalee said something (Boo and I were just out of earshot), and I saw Mama and baby go back in the house. When they came back out, Annalee had on different shoes. My first reaction was "That's spoiling her." But when I learned that Annalee had specifically asked for "other shoes," her first use of the word "other," I understood -- and approved. How could I not?